Best way for Happy married life and strong valid reason to get divorce

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FOR Our GIRLS:

• Please do not annoyed if you find him different from what you have dreaming.
• Reduce your expectations, accept him as he is.
• Kindly don't compare your husband with your Father or someone especially in lovable gesture or successful in business. Don't point out how much better other men are doing.
• Never ask questions about each other's past affairs or relationship.
• Daily spend time with him and respect husband work.
• Hold back the sharp word's that will turn an argument into a fight.
• Don't try to fence your hubby.Men atrophy if they feel fenced in.They need to feel free as one of the basic masculine characteristics is a desire for freedom- face to do his job in his own way and enjoy the hobbies that fill up the chinks in his personality.
• Don't make an issue over small things, everyone makes mistakes: don't be hesitant to compromise.
• Try respond and not to react immediately when disturbed.
• Never never discuss about seperation/ divorce.
• Never use mobile after 9pm.

FOR OUR MEN:

• Touch , the kiss , the embrace are more important, your wife craves for attention.
• Spend time together without interruption by your children.
• Your wife need your supervision to protect & direct the sensitivity of her emotions.All she wants is your HAND.In return she will give you loyalty and devotion.
• Your wife likes to dream, you must appreciate her.
• When you have argument, don't scold her, especially with abusive language.It destroy their complete self esteem.
• As far as physical desire is concerned, every individual has a different wavelength, a different cycle of need. Men need SEX for love and women need LOVE for sex.
• Never discuss about seperation/ divorce.
• Never use mobile after 9pm.

If you planned for divorce, pls go only under below criteria,or else we will become an instable person.

Adultery, Cruelty, Desertion for at least a period of 2 yrs, conversion of religion, unsound mind( psychosis), Suffering from venereal disease or AIDS, reuunciation ( துறவி), not heard of as being alive for 7 yrs,

No resumption of co- habitation for one year after the decree of judicial seperation,no restitution of conjugal rights for one year after decree for restitution of conjugal rights and husband guilty of rape , sodomy or bestiality.

In general, marital issues can be solved best by professional counseling and not by கட்ட பஞ்சாயத்து.

"Let all LIVE A GOOD LIFE , NOT A LONG LIFE".